Having trouble reaching orgasm

So I've been having a really hard time cumming lately. It started with me just having to try a little harder to cum but over the last couple weeks I just can't cum. I read erotica I watch porn I use toys, lube. I do vaginal I rub my clit but it just edges me and I can't seem to cum. I'm so so so frustrated I just wanna finish and I seem to not be able to. I even fingered my ass from pure desperation and it actually seemed to get me closer but It didn't push me over the edge. 

Why is this happening? How can I fix it? Do I need something more extreme? See a doctor? 

Sounds like you just need to relax. You're stressing about not being able to climax but you just need to enjoy what you're doing. Use your toys and figure if you don't climax it's no big deal. The more relaxed you are, the more likely you are to cum. You're putting pressure on yourself which is making it harder! ❤️

I'm trying, I really am but if I play with myself and don't get to cum it just feels like I'm edging myself. This has never happened before and while I do enjoy edging this is way too far. So when I'm playing after a while I just get desperate to cum and then I can't. 

Idk, I tried again last night and this morning with a little vibe and a dido but I'm gonna do it again soon. I feel like I'm going crazy here but I'll set the mood, relax and go into it not even planning to cum. I'll see what happens 

Just means you need a good ole fashion dick slamming ya