I allowed my much older married boss to get close to me and I got pregnant. I wasn't careless, or ignorant, I wanted his baby so bad today I can't understand myself. It created a real problem for him, his wife took my side, he was responsible. After a long discussion we agreed that when the baby came she would adopt the baby and they would raise the baby along with her two. I was pushed into that decision and my mother supported it completely. I was 21, with an associates degree and really couldn't support a baby, even with child support, meaning I had to live with my mother. I spent a lot of time answering the question 'how could you?'
Well, the baby came, perfect little boy. Daddy was happy to get a son, stepmom was happy to have a new baby to love, grandma was happy for a grandson, and me mom was in love at first site. There was no adoption, I took off work to nurse my baby. Between grandma and stepmom the baby is very well taken care of. Daddy has his bouncing baby boy, everything else is irrelevant.
Eighteen months later my son was joined by a little sister. My job is being their mother. My mom and me and the 'kids' moved into a house close to Daddy and stepmom. I get plenty of child support and 'spousal' support, I don't work. Family planning? Stepmom is the biggest one spoiling them. She refers to her step kids as her wonder babies. And me, as her little sister. Grandma is grandma to all four kids.
When I was a preteen, not old enough to get pregnant, my teenage brother and I were very sexually active with each other.
It happened very intermittently as it all depended on having privacy, but when we had the opportunity we both took full advantage of it. We stopped when I had my first period. Neither of us regret it and luckily our parents never found out. Both our spouses have no idea of our history and we both intend to keep this way.
