first orgasm

I had my first orgasm the first time with a girl. She was older (14yo) and we ended up sharing a bed together at camp. After everyone was asleep she slid right beside me and asked me if I wanted her to get me off. I didnt really understand and said ok, and then her head disappeared under the sheets, and then she was licking me down there. I was so scared but it felt so good I couldnt stop her. When she put a finger inside of me while she was licking me I couldnt breathe and then I lost all control until everything inside exploded. Ive never had an orgasm as strong as that since from any man which is why now I occasionally cheat on my husband with one of my girlfriends who can also make me explode.