I was a 24 year old tax accountant working in the oil and gas industry. One of the persons I did work for was the Tax Director. He hired me and he was my mentor. At work there was a group of people that partied together on Friday night, and the rumor was that they partied at a private home afterwards. A party that was attended by senior men in management. I asked the Director if that was true and he told me he knew about the rumor but he couldn't confirm it. In my age group, and primarily women, the rumor was pretty alive and I was invited. I told the Director I had been invited, and he told me not to go. If it was true I didn't want to be there, and if wasn't true he didn't want me disappointed.
To obey or not to obey, that was the question. My coworker that invited me told me I was crazy not to go, and fuck him (my Director). When Friday came and work was finished I was expected to go with these other women. We went to this bar I had never heard of, lots of older men hitting on women. A couple of men came up to me, but I told them I was out of commission. "I see, I understand, next time". My workmate asked me why I wasn't mingling, these fish were big fish and I needed a big fish if I wanted the lifestyle.
I already felt unconfutable when I was told the party was moving to this high rise. I begged off, that I didn't feel well. I called a cab and went home. I felt bad and stupid. But the party had moved on and I was alone in my apartment. I decided to call my Director, it was already after midnight and I told him I had been obedient and not gone to the party. He asked me "are you still virgin".
Saturday he called me around noon and told me he was driving in to see me. He wanted me to tell him what happened and wanted to know why I had disobeyed him and gone with them to the bar to begin with. He told me obedience was important and he expected that from me. Me, he made sure he emphasized that he needed Me to be obedient. And virgin. I assured him I was still virgin and I wouldn't disobey him again. At that point I told him I wanted it all, the ring and the wedding. All, then I wasn't going to be a virgin and I would be an obedient wife. Did he understand what I was saying?
It took a few minutes before it sunk in. Marriage was a big step for me, he was fourteen years older, and had baggage, a divorced wife with two children. I wore white and a vail. I wore a chastity belt for when he undressed me. I had the key hidden, he had to find it. He wanted an obedient virgin, well I wanted a knight in shining armor. And to emphasize what I was doing I asked his ex wife to be my maid of honor. His kids were ring bearer and flower girl. It took him a while to find the key to my chastity belt. His exwife had it on a chain in her bosoms. A man never loses a wife, he just gets another one. I know that, I'm not stupid. I am not just marrying him, I am marrying her and the children.