Reply: I (45F) have realized that I’m probably a sex addict

Oh yes!
Both my girlfriend and I have cheating kinks, and love it so much.
You're not alone.
Have you cheated?

I wasn’t always so sexual. Early in life I was probably “normal” sexually. But in my late 30s and into my 40s my sex drive went into hypersonic mode - and it really has not stopped. I want it every single day now, often multiple times a day. I’ve grown to love anal as much as vaginal and I crave giving BJs more now than I ever have. Public play, super rough, cheating kinks, anal…these things are constantly running thru my mind. I wake up and immediately go there in my mind and all throughout the day too. It’s altered how I dress and talk, to the point I’m basically Jekyll and Hyde at this point…quiet and small and proper by day…but inside I’m a slut and evening and weekends I look and act the part. I don’t even watch porn, this is a natural occurrence within my body. It’s a mystery to me why, but I’m perfectly fine with the “slut” label at this point in my life.